Tinder Answers (3) – What is the meaning of Life and Love?
12/05/2019 | Ben
Another round of Tinder answers. I will mix it with some other sources. What questions do you ask girls on Online Dating apps? Well, one of my “techniques” is to write my 2 questions. They mostly have the purpose to go into deeper conversations. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. But if we are honest with each other… Who doesn’t like a good conversation?!
You probably heard the podcast episode already if not I will link below. So my two favorite questions are “What is the sense of life” and “what is love”…. Sometimes I get funny answers, sometimes they are very short and shallow, but you barely hear the same thing twice.
After a while, you also can kind of categories of people. I mean I don’t ask them to answer the question to put them into a box right after, but it gives me a feeling of how much they think about those things. How much they are interested in the topic or how much effort they put into answering these questions. You all know that time is valuable and we tend to limit our energy to things we like. Especially if you on an app like tinder and most of your time is wasted anyway.
For each blog, I want to share 8-11 of these answers. Some I will comment a bit more, some I leave it blank for you to interpret. So, let’s stop talking and see the first answers:
1. We need that! I like that.
A bit funny that we need all that in life, but why not. I like the different aspect of her answer towards love, but not sure if I understood the first statement. Is Love really a feeling? What you mean by “you can share accept”. Love starts within yourself. That is awesome!
2. Tell me! Do you have time?
I guess most girls expect sexual or inappropriate question and are surprised about what they got. It is refreshing when some people simply don’t know or just give back a compliment. Ask yourself. Do you need answers to this question? Is it important for you to “define” love?
3. Scientist, who eat too much chocolate!
Another headline could. Let answer the brain first and then the heart. A good example of just writing what you think and feel… Of course likely not the same… Reality vs. Dream! Super and entertaining response. What you think?
4. Girls Listen! Just don’t be bitter =)
Proper answer and she took time. That’s the kind of response you can have a good conversation with. Takes time and thought about it. Still wondering about how often people truly and deeply love. I think they do, but not many people. I would go even that far that it wouldn’t make the world better. Why? Well, wouldn’t you just do everything to just make the world a better place for the people you do love? Still rules out most of the other people you know.
5. You write in your profile that you love good conversations!
Yes, maybe you just feel to be funny. Just don’t give me that if you write in your profile that you are into good conversations. No worries, nobody got hurt. Can someone explain the (8) thing? Is that a hidden dick joke?
6. It is your choice
Paulo is in survival mode when she loves someone. It is truly a funny answer, but she seems to be serious about it. What do you think? Why you can relate to that answer?
7. Marianna doesn’t even need a copy of herself
If you love yourself fullest you even don’t need a copy of yourself. I need a copy! I do love self-love though.
8. Is it really not a song?
9. We got a Foodie!
Always fascinated about getting some Foodies or other niche answers. Very true answer for love. Sounds very appealing.
10. We got a turn on here
*seufz* that are the answers you just get me curious about you! There are two ways to get me. On a sexual level – just don’t be cheap. The other way is like that. Taking time, answer honest and authentic. Also very curious about the theory of two integers, instead of searching for the other half.
11. Where do I need to sign?
I first thought after the “Wow! Thats deep! lol!” it will be disappointing. But wow! Look at this. Great response and so pure. I would sign the contract (whatever it is about) with her. Loves her comment about energy. I should write her again =)
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Which answer do you like the most? Which one relates to your personal answer and why? Write me a message. You didn’t get enough? Find a list of the past collections below. Also, feel free to write an article if you feel for it. I don’t have super high standard and you can be totally free on the topic you choose. Just should touch something around philosophy, psychology or Sex. Let us be authentic. Let us be real!